A Community of Values

Priorities reflect our Values

Passion reflects our Vision

Persistence reflects View

“The More choices you have, the more your values matter.”

Michael Schrage

This week we’ve been celebrating our graduates and their future. We’ve watched them grow, we taught them God’s plan, and we’ve offered them the love and security of a church family.  But at this moment of transition, we stop and consider what is the best thing we could give this new generation.

We’ve given them a good education in order to get a good job, make money, have security, and build the American Dream. But have we given them joy, peace, love, gentleness, perseverance and hope. Have we given them FAITH? Have we given them our Values, Wisdom from people who have experienced this road before, or the Truth that life is build on a foundation of morals. In the world of Martin Luther King, Jr., this is a moral universe with essential laws and values as pressing and significant as the physical laws that govern motion.

To live without a sense of our core morals, is like jumping from an airplane without a parachute because you alone can fly. For awhile it certainly seems to be true as you glide effortlessly through the air. BUT the spiritual laws of the universe eventually become apparent and you realize the folly of your decision, but with disastrous consequences. It is our calling to offer to your young adults and older adults the Truth of life as expressed in the Scriptures, verified by saints and sinners, and offered at the Cost of Christ’s life.

Re-Discovering Lost Values – Martin Luther King, Jr. preached February 28, 1954 in Detroit

Graduate Blessing Slides: Graduate Blessing

Sermon Slides: Worship 5.20.12 Community of Value - pdf

Worship 5.20.12 Community of Value - PowerPoint

Sermon Audio: A Community of Values 5.20.12L              A Community of Values 5.20.12e

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Centennial Moments XVII

A review of the history, mission and faithfulness of the people who called First United Methodist Church, Williamstown, West Virginia – home.

We offer these messages and slides with gratitude for the people and faithfulness of those who gave their hearts to Christ, Church and Community.

Presented May 20, 2012 by Jean Pickering

Focus: Missional Heritage

Slides: Centennial – May 20, 2012

Audio: Centennial Moment 5.20.12L

Centennial Moment 5.20.12e

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Centennial Moments XVI

A review of the history, mission and faithfulness of the people who called First United Methodist Church, Williamstown, West Virginia – home.

We offer these messages and slides with gratitude for the people and faithfulness of those who gave their hearts to Christ, Church and Community.

Presented May 13, 2012 by Jean Pickering

Slides: Centennial May 13

Audio: Centennial Moment 5.13.12L

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Finding Joy

When we ask ourselves that basic of all questions, “What am I doing here” we judge the responses based on our instinctive desire to find joy. For example, if I say I’m here to work and build a comfortable life for myself, that answer is evaluated by this standard – “ok, but will that bring me joy (or you may call it satisfaction, contentment, peace, etc.) If it doesn’t, then it is just a means to finding joy, or we’ve been deceived into thinking it’s the real deal. This story should clear things up a bit. 

There is a story in Luke 7:37-50, where Jesus encounters a woman so filled with joy that is overflows in a flood of tear and humility. She’s got the real deal, but where did it come from, how did she find it, and what makes her story so special?

Her life is sharply contrasted to another man who thinks he’s found the meaning of life, but has not. Simon is a Pharisee who is indifferent about experiencing joy that would upset the status quo to which he’s grown accustomed. 

David White is quoted as saying, “Inside everyone is a great shout of joy waiting to be birthed.” I like that quote because true joy is filled with potential, opportunity, hope, miracle and wonder.

Why is Simon, a Pharisee, so selfish? He’s not convinced that God is the Best Giver. He still thinks of God as Divine Judge and himself as prosecuting attorney.  He thinks God only taxes and exacts, takes and rakes. So, the Pharisee looks out for numero uno, and of course that means having standards. He protects his own interests.  He plans and strategizes to be sure his standard of living (what an abominable phrase when our Lord had no place to lay His head!) is secure. He does all this because he doesn’t believe 2 Cor. 9:6-11.  He doesn’t believe or trust the generosity of God revealed in the word.  He believes the scarcity that whispers in his ear and has taken root in his soul. He believes in the power of position, cash and influence more than the riches of God’s grace. So he grows tight-fisted, self-centered, safe-playing, and small. Is there a Pharisee in you, perhaps just a seed?

Why is he so at home in a theological understanding and history so plentiful in sacrifice, radical generosity, and selfless love? How could he celebrate Passover year after year without letting the message of sacrifice, protection and mercy seeping into his spiritual life? Again, he won’t be at home if his theology, history, etc. leads him to the living Lord who though He was rich became poor for our sakes. That’s a Lord the selfish Pharisee could never countenance. He has chosen a god of his own making, he’s made himself an idol.

How do we find Gospel Joy

(1) Be Aware of your place before God

Simon: Blind            conceited, cautious, callous

Woman: Aware      excluded, branded, broken, desperate

If you find you are becoming more aware of other’s faults, shortcoming and sins than you are your own, you are walking away from Joy.

(2) Be overwhelmed by the willingness of God to love you

“You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule.” Matt 5:3 Msg

(3) Have Faith – means to live beyond merits, metrics and measures

“Your Faith as saved you. Go in Peace.”

THINK IT THROUGH

  1. Can you love a God who forgives, restores and protects sinners?
  2. Is your response to Jesus appropriate for what He has done?
  3. Is your giving controlled and carefully measured or an emotional expression of love and gratitude?
  4. Is your relationship with Jesus more like that of Simon or the Woman?
Gospel Joy 5.13.12L - Audio file
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I believe…

I think everyone should have an “I believe” statement. It’s a place to collect your values, your priorities and your goals.  Every cause produces and effect, every effect is looking for its cause. Be more of a cause in your life than an effect.

I have found that most people are happy just being an effect so long as the effect is manageable and not too painful. The advantage to this position is that your don’t have to take responsibility for it all, life just sort of happens to you. It’s like the elections, love them or hate them, people would prefer not to vote so they can complain about who’s in office and what a terrible job their doing. By voting you become part of the cause and have some, although slight, responsibility. 

In order to do this right let me suggest 3 key steps that are essential to determining your core beliefs. There may be more you will find helpful, but you won’t get far without passing through these stations.

(1) Faith – you must at some level believe there is a God and that God has a plan for you life. Without this basic, fundamental belief everything, including your belief system, is meaningless and without value. For people who don’t take the time to think through their values, goals and beliefs, there is perhaps at their core a dis-belief that God cares and wants something more for their lives. Think about is – why spend the time and effort to create core beliefs if you believe there’s nothing to believe in! (see Jeremiah 29:11 for inspiration)

(2) Solitude – noise, busyness and distractions are the greatest temptations of our generation. People have stopped being deep thinkers and we’ve almost given up completely on contemplation. We run, we consume and we plan until we’re empty, burned out and divorced from life, joy and people. Unless you’re willing to spend some time in silence listening to your own heart, asking yourself painful questions, and growing comfortable with the answers, you’ll never want to go much deeper.

“In the attitude of silence the soul finds the path in a clearer light, and what is elusive and deceptive resolves itself into crystal clearness.” ~Mahatma Gandhi

(3) Hope – hope is the strength to pursue some noble goal at which others only scoff.  Hope is a God-given virtues that is like the fire that warms the heart to endless possibilities, it is passion that sees beyond the morning fog, and resolve to make it happen. Without hope, you probably wouldn’t have gotten this far. (see Philippians 4:13 for inspiration)

Beliefs are refined over time but their roots run deep into your heart. All you’re really doing is asking why does my heart leap at the idea of something and collapse at the prospect of others.

When you know what you believe, you can then begin to align your life according to how God has wired you. Avoid energy and joy-stealing activities and engage in projects that make you stretch and grow.

Please share some of your core beliefs and in the future I’ll post on Values, and Goals!

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3 Most Important Spiritual Questions

Ephesians 1.

This book has had a profound impact on my life: Who I understand God to be; all that he has accomplished for me in Christ; how I view myself as a result; what I value and live for; how I view others inside the Church; outside the Church; how the Gospel transforms my relationships, my marriage, my parenting, my work ethic; how I interpret and make sense of my own personal struggles…I hope that in our study you will have come to see God, others, self, and this world more clearly and live differently in light of it.

In this letter we discover not only the purpose of life, but what God is doing through Christ. It is about making sense of history, culture, society and spiritual need to be drawn to something greater than ourselves. What’s going on here?

I want to show you the theme of this epistle in Eph. 1:9-10. This verse is the key to understanding Ephesians and ALL of Scripture. Pretty important stuff!

Dr. Martyn Lloyd Jones said of this verse: “I do not hesitate to assert that we have in this verse the key to the understanding of the chief practical purpose of this Epistle to the Ephesians…Indeed, we can go further and say that this verse states what is the central theme of all Scripture.” 

He has made known to us the mystery of His will. A Mystery is something that was not previously known but has now been made known. God’s will or purposes were not known until He made them known. And Christ is at the center of this plan. Here is that plan, at the time that God has appointed, he will unite all things together in Christ, whether things in heaven or on earth. The words “unite all things” literally translated mean “to sum up all things;” to bring all parts together. It is used in Romans 13:9 to say that all the commands are summed up in one word, “Love your neighbor…” So, in Romans 13:9, different commands find unity and alignment in one word.  It means to bring everything together under one head. The NLT Translation is a good summary:  “9 God has now revealed to us his mysterious plan regarding Christ, a plan to fulfill his own good pleasure. 10 And this is the plan: At the right time he will bring everything together under the authority of Christ—everything in heaven and on earth.”

Here are what I think are the three most Important Spiritual questions:

(1) What is the Purpose of Life? see Matthew 22:27-40

(2) What am I here? why were you created in this generation, in this place, among these people, with these talents and abilities? see Ephesians 2:10

(3) What is our Mission? What is God trying to accomplish through us? see John 17:23

Sermon Notes: Sermon Notes 05.06.12 D3 Living

Sermon Slides: Worship 5.06.12 D3 Living

Audio files:      D3 Living 5.6.12L                     D3 Living 5.6.12E

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Centennial Moments

A review of the history, mission and faithfulness of the people who called First United Methodist Church, Williamstown, West Virginia – home.

We offer these messages and slides with gratitude for the people and faithfulness of those who gave their hearts to Christ, Church and Community.

Presented April 29, 2012 by Delores McCallister

Slides: Centennial April 29

Audio: 


Presented May 6, 2012 by Cindy Bush

Slides: centennial – may 6

Audio: 


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3 Things the Good Shepherd Does

Jesus told this parable: “Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them. Does he not leave the ninety-nine in the open country and go after the lost sheep until he finds it? And when he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent. – Luke 15:3-7

1) The Good Shepherd Searches

- Notice that the shepherd is anxious to recover the lost sheep — He leaves the ninety-nine immediately to go after the one who is lost.

- Notice the shepherd doesn’t give up

- Notice the shepherd isn’t angry at the sheep, in fact, he’s down right joyful when he finds his sheep.

2) The Good Shepherd Finds

- Notice the shepherd accomplishes what he set out to do

- Notice the shepherd comforts the lost sheep

3) The Good Shepherd Restores

- Shepherd brings the sheep all the way home — “…and goes home.”

Application of the Word

(1) Are you frightened by circumstances, surroundings or wolves? –> Call to the Shepherd who is even now looking for you, if  you want His help.

(2) Are you willing to receive the help of the Shepherd? –> this may mean leaving some destructive habits, locations and relationships behind. Many prefer the suffering they know to what is unknown. This step requires faith.

(3) Are you willing to living under the protection, love and guidance of the Shepherd? –> there can only be one Shepherd. This is not a committee where you can run for office. The Shepherd is worthy of your adoration, praise and obedience. This requires gratitude and humility. Do you have it in you yet?

 

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This I Believe

This I Believe

I believe I need a shepherd.

Because I am sometimes timid and other times overconfident,

because I often don’t know the best path yet pretend I do,

because I rush into dead ends or lead others into hazardous places,

because my brightest ideas are seamed with darkness,

because the things I crave may not be what is good for me,

I need a shepherd.

I believe in Jesus, the best possible shepherd;

his wisdom leads me to the best opportunities,

his word comforts me when I’m anxious or afraid,

his arm steadies me when I feel weary and heavy-laden,

his wounded body displays the cost of my rescue,.

I believe in Jesus, the best possible shepherd.

I believe that I do not find him but he finds me,

that I under his care by virtue of sheer grace,

the love he gives me is to be shared with others,

that he treasures my name and prepares a place for me,

that his fold transfixes earth and heaven.

I trust Jesus, the good shepherd. Amen.

by  Bruce D. Prewer

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What to do with Moralistic Therapeutic Deism

Several days ago some friends of mine were stuck in a car on the way home from a meeting. As usually happens when we get together, our conversation turned toward church life, dwindling volunteers and the problems we all face as pastors to communicate spiritual things in a hectic, overworked and sometimes deaf world.  We had just come from a meeting in which one of our colleagues reviewed a book on youth ministry entitled, Almost Christian: What the Faith of Our Teenagers is Telling the American Church by Kenda Creasy Dean (Jul 15, 2010).

The focus of our discussion drifted into what’s happening in our techno-centric culture and the rise of a competitive lifestyle in America currently labeled, Moralistic Therapeutic Deism (MTD).

The author found that many young people believed in several moral values commonly agreed to by all major world religions. It is this combination of beliefs that they label Moralistic Therapeutic Deism:

  1. A god exists who created and ordered the world and watches over it.
  2. God wants people to be good, nice, and fair to each other.
  3. The central goal of life is to be happy and to feel good about oneself.
  4. God is not particularly involved in one’s life except when needed to resolve a problem.
  5. Good people go to heaven when they die.

These points of belief were compiled from interviews with approximately 3,000 teenagers. [R. Albert Mohler, Jr., Moralistic Therapeutic Deism--the New American Religion, Christian Post, 18 April 2005.]

As pastors and practitioners of the spiritual life, we’ve committed our lives to invite others to experience the wonders of a Spirit-filled existence. Unfortunately we’re faced with competitive lifestyles that are deceptively simply in their approach and deadly in their effect. In fact I would probably argue that Christianity is at a distinct disadvantage in the western consumer oriented culture.

CS Lewis wrote about this problem in Mere Christianity when he said,

“Christianity tells people to repent and promises them forgiveness. It therefore has nothing (as far as I know) to say to people who do not know they have done anything to repent of and who do not feel that they need any forgiveness. It is after you have realized that there is a real Moral Law, and a Power behind the law, and that you have broken that law and put yourself wrong with that Power-it is after all this, and not a moment sooner, that Christianity begins to talk.”

Lewis suggests that until we acknowledge there is something wrong with us and seek help, Christianity is simply speaking a foreign language. In our consumer culture with an abundance of everything while rushing from one activity to another, there is little time to consider if anything is wrong.

Whereas Christianity requires we acknowledge the destructive nature of sin, MTD provides easy answers to difficult questions without all the messiness of repentance. So if the culture is looking for quick fixes to serious soul-searching questions (which I think it is) Christianity is at a serious disadvantage.

This is also why I believe Christianity is exploding in the places where MTD is at a serious disadvantage. Places like third world countries in Africa and Asia, places where religious affiliation puts you at risk and places where life is fragile from disease and starvation.

So here’s the big question, “how can the Church in America engage and encourage people to seek change in a MTD world?”

My answer: we can’t – and here’s why.

Several years ago I had a friend that smoked about a pack of cigarettes a day. It was simply an addiction, but an addiction that satisfied a need or a craving. Regardless of how destructive I felt the addiction was to my friend, it was almost impossible for the smoker to see it at the time because of the satisfying pleasure, however temporary, it gave. Addictions blind us to the reality of their existence. Every alcoholic feels they have their drinking under control, every drug addict feels they can quite any time and every sinner see the speck in everyone else’s eye.

In trying to help my friend, I appealed to the obvious health issues. Even though there are mountains of research studies highlighting the effects of smoking, the fact remained that my friend felt fine and so was not motivated to endure the necessary change to realize an uncertain (at least in their mind) future.

I appealed to the obvious drain on their financial resources. Even though the cost of cigarettes continues to skyrocket, people will always cut in other areas to feed their addiction. Addictions grow in their intensity beyond which we can control them and they begin to control us. Money will always be made available and was not a motivating fact leading to change. There was not a bigger NEED in their life to overcome the need for a cigarette fix.

I appealed to the reality of cancer that often comes from cigarettes, but since some people have lived to old age even though smoking for years, cancer is a possibility not a certainty. They would much rather play the odds than change.

Not until there was a dramatic crisis in their life with the diagnosis of breast cancer that a serious attempt was made to quit smoking. Of course when the breast cancer went into remission, so did their attempt to change. Time to light up!

MTD provides a convenient, comfortable and painless way to deal with the realities of life. It simply whispers in your ear “I’m OK, you’re OK!” Because it is so easy, no amount of logical arguments can alter a lifestyle in hot pursuit of pleasure, power and possessions. Unless there is a crisis and this house of cards collapses, little can be done from additional logical arguments.

So what can we do? I believe churches must remain vigilant as God sentinels and light in the world to wait and watch for God’s hand in the lives of those around us. I think that in times of crisis, God speaks most clearly.

Again, CS Lewis writes, “God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains: it is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world.” – The Problem of Pain

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